𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲
The people you love to talk to more wanna spend more time, travel here & there, and enjoy a few moments; they matter a lot to you. Obviously! & it is normal.
Of course, we love freedom & we don't want to compromise. That's why we want to spend most of our time with the people we love. Isn't it?
But are you on their priority list? Ask yourself !!!
Not always! Because they also have friends other than you, with whom they want to enjoy & wanna support them at every step.
𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂
They are the ones who are always there with you when you need them during a hard time.
Take a pause, & think about those who are willing to take a step forward to help you. Sometimes, without even asking, just by observing the change in your behavior! They are gems.
Have you ever wondered if there are always secret admirers in your life who look up to you & always pray good things for you? They will not always tell you- how much they care. They will never try to gain your attention - constantly. But God knows how they suddenly appear in front of you when you genuinely need them.
And people you like and who like you back are rare in your friend circle! They are not always the same, but this is a basic human tendency.
I can proudly talk about such unique gems who like us more & I have learned to focus more on people: who care for me instead of those to whom I care & I am still trying to understand it precisely & practically.
Both are necessary for our life, but those who care about us are amazing! And they must be on our priority list - always! They will never ask for it, but this is the only way - how you can care for them.
They do not disturb you every time because they know they are not your priority, but they still treat you like - you're their priority.
Mark the difference !!
Let's stop chasing everything we like more & start chasing priceless & valuable relations & friends who are important to us.
For example:-
• How many of you care for those secret admirers - who silently support you but are not seeking your attention?
• You like someone until they support you! When they suddenly disappear, you do not even care for them. Instead, you create a negative perception of them.
How many times have you asked them: Are you ok?
Who is your top priority?
Share with someone & let them know that you care!
Be in Touch,
Monika Singh
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